My Happiness

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Have you ever smiled whenever you see someone smiling? If a child asks you for help, would you mind to do so? Also, while your neighbors are happy, will you be happy as well? If the answer is yes, you are one of people who have actual happiness.Why? It is because these will guild you not to get lost and slave at depression. The definition of my happiness, however, seems to be different from peoples surrounding me. I have never looked up dictionaries searching for its correct meaning, but I am sure that three following things I perceive now are called happiness: living with warm family, avoiding extravagant expenses and helping other people.
         Spending time living with family makes members happy without any other descriptions. Family, in fact, is the most well-known place for safety. One might ague that some of worst cases occur in families, but this is such a less case of them. As I have lived in many places like relatives houses, dormitory and hotels at times, I have never felt free to breaths or even sleep deeply. For people who claim to be my friends, I am not sure whether they would be sincere to me or not. Thus, I hardy get happy each time whenever I must be surrounded by strangers. On the other hand, I am always fine and free to spend time living with my family members. This lifestyle is probably not agreed by people who love freedom, but they define the word freedom differently from me. Moreover, I believe family members often encourage one another. They do not hope to take advantage of me, and I have never been aggravated by them. These enable me to me happy whenever I return to my family members embraces. 
          Being thrifty is the way to bring about pleasure. These days, there are a numbers of fashioned costume and technological facilities developed intelligently by humans. If we adhere to them, we must spend an amount of money updating ourselves to modern. The way to earn funds seems easy for the rich and the prosperous. What about the poor or the homeless? It is usually an obstacle for their living. From my aspect, I strongly advocate sufficiency economy philosophy bestowed by our king. He provides his subjects the simple way to be happy. To follow this theory, we do not need to fight and force each other for our happiness. Try not to cause unnecessary expenses and live our lives with whatever we have. Vitally, we must simply know how to manage our resources like farmland in order to gain useful income. This amount of money appears less to be compared to others but enough for making us happy. I am applying this principle to my routine and able to reach the concept of actual happiness.
          An above hand is better than a below one, which means being a giver is better than being a receiver, has been my vision since I found happiness could be built through this way. In terms of donating or helping, money is not the only way to do that. We all can support each other with beneficial behavior and polite manners. In my case, as a university student, I always train the juniors in their lessons especially everything concerned with English language. To do this, I must pay for some expenses related to teaching at times. Some might question what I got by doing this. Although I have no answer to them, I find it makes me happy and hopeful. Importantly, I am always satisfied when seeing people being supported by me smiling. Just only saying the word thanks sincerely by them can lower my tiredness. Thus, for me, happiness can be built up easily by giving a favor to others. 
          To sum up, staying home with my beloved family members, reducing unimportant costs and supporting others for their success are at least three ways to make me happy. Happiness is humans destination of traveling for a long distance on the road in this conscious world. It is also what they have pursued for so long. I believe that happiness has hidden deeply in humans mind. The most important point is whether they know how to utilize it or not.